Get to know Jay

What helps you feel connected to other people?

Wholesome conversation, old tales, laughter, a bit of a deep and meaningful. Being able to be open and authentic with people, and feeling comfortable and relaxed in the environment I am in. And of course, no judgement. We judge ourselves enough on the inside, we don't need it on the outside too. I think it's one of the core reasons that I do this work. When people are open and know they can be authentic in front of me, it's a powerful connection that is integral in healing, recovery and affirming their identity.

What helps you keep perspective?

Being in and connecting with nature. I grew up on a farm, and open natural space is where I can collect my thoughts and see the bigger picture. I like going on long runs, the clarity I get from being out in nature with music on can be exhilarating. Surfing's another one. When I'm out there watching the waves roll in, I might as well be in my kingdom. I call it my Place of Worship.

Are you more of a planner or a go with the flow person?

I'm much more a go with the flow person. I obviously plan and follow structure and routines in my work, family and daily life, but I'm very comfortable not having to think about all that, whether it be camping, surfing, out on a long run, or a road trip.

What feels important to protect at this stage of life?

Family. I have two boys who I want to help get a good start. As a parent, I want to protect and guide them as they try to find their way and work out how to navigate through life. Health matters too, it's important to keep servicing the car, so to speak, so I can keep going the distance. And meaning in work. I've just hit 50, and I want to keep getting meaning out of what I do rather than simply working toward retirement.