ADHD: My Brain

A guide for kids who want to understand their ADHD brain.

ADHD: My Brain

ADHD is a word for a brain that works fast, jumps around, and loves interesting things. If you have ADHD, you are not bad, lazy, or naughty. Your brain is just wired a little differently, and once you understand how, life can start to feel a lot easier.

Your Brain Is Like a Race Car

Imagine your brain is a bit like a race car. Other brains might be more like family cars. Both are good. They just work differently.

Race-car brains are quick, exciting, full of ideas, and love going fast. The tricky part is that race cars need bigger brakes, and sometimes the brakes are the hard bit to build.

So you might have lots of brilliant ideas but find it hard to slow down, finish things, or wait your turn. That’s not your fault. That’s the brakes still being built.

Things You Might Notice

Lots of kids with ADHD feel this way. See if any of these sound familiar:

  • It can be really hard to do boring things, even when you know you should.

  • You start lots of things but don’t always finish them.

  • You lose things a lot, even things you’ve just put down.

  • Your body can feel wriggly when other kids are able to sit still.

  • You blurt things out before you’ve had time to think them through.

  • Your feelings can be really big, really fast.

  • When you find something interesting, you can focus on it for hours.

If lots of these feel like you, don’t worry. It doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with you. It means you have an ADHD brain, and there are ways to make life feel a bit easier.

ADHD Superpowers

Lots of kids with ADHD have brilliant strengths. See if any of these sound like you:

  • You’re really creative and have ideas other kids don’t think of.

  • You love adventures and trying new things.

  • You’re full of energy and lots of fun to be around.

  • You can hyperfocus on things you love, sometimes for ages.

  • You’re funny and good at making people laugh.

  • You notice things other people miss.

Things That Help Your Brain

ADHD brains often love structure on the outside, so the brain can feel more free on the inside. Some things that can help:

  • Break big jobs into small steps, and tick them off as you go.

  • Use timers, lists, and visual reminders, so your brain doesn’t have to remember everything.

  • Move your body. Running, jumping, swimming, or climbing can all help you focus.

  • Get enough sleep, food, and water. It sounds boring, but it really helps.

  • Keep a tidy-ish space for the things you need every day, like your bag, drink bottle, or hat.

  • When you get stuck, take a quick brain break and come back to it.

If Your Feelings Feel Big

Lots of ADHD kids feel things bigger and faster than other kids. Frustration, sadness, excitement, and anger can all feel huge. That’s not a bad thing. It just means your feelings sometimes need a bit of help to settle.

Try a few deep breaths, count to ten, get a drink of water, hug someone you trust, or move your body. The feeling will pass. It always does.

You Are Not Alone

Lots of kids have ADHD. Some of the coolest, funniest, kindest people you’ll meet have ADHD brains. You can talk to a parent, a teacher, or a therapist who helps kids with ADHD work out what they need.

HELPFUL RESOURCES FOR GROWN-UPS AROUND YOU

 
Tim Jezard

Principal Psychologist and Co-Director at Newport Counselling & Psychology Service

https://www.newportcounselling.com.au/
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